With his leather pants, gravelly baritone and messianic stage moves, Creed lead singer Scott Stapp certainly looks the part of a rock star, but he hardly acts it. "I see a lot of breasts when I'm singing," he says of female fans who flash him during concerts. "But that's not what I'm into." In fact, Stapp rejects the sex, drugs and rock and roll code that his hero Jim Morrison lived by and, at 27, died by. "There is no rule that says if you are a rock star you have to have sex with as many groupies as you can," he says. "There is no rule number two that says take as much drugs as you can so you die at 27."
He may not share his idol's appetite for self-destruction, but Stapp, now 27 himself, is a throwback to those glory days when charismatic rock singers like Morrison ruled the pop world. Having sold over 9 million copies of their latest album of inspirational anthems, Human Clay, the follow-up to their 5-million-selling 1997 debut albums, My Own Prison, Stapp and his bandmates-guitarist and co-songwriter Mark Tremonti, 26, and drummer Scott Phillips, 28 (bassist Brian Marshall, 27, recently quit the band to pursue other interests)-are thriving in an era when teenybop and rap metal acts have made rock bands an endangered species. Rolling Stone music editor Joe Levy says that Creed's "big, melodic, skyscraper-size rock and roll" sound appeals to "a lot of people who don't want to listen to Britney Spears or Jay-Z." At the same time, Stapp's "great voice" and "spiritual depth" galvanize audiences, says John Kurzweg, producer of Creed's two CDs. "He's carrying on that [rock star] tradition."
Of course, that tradition has long included marital strife, and it's no different for Stapp. Divorced in June 1999 after a 16-month marriage to Hillaree Burns, 22, an aspiring model, Stapp says the reason "wasn't infidelity. We were just young and had a baby, and everything happened so fast." Within a month the couple reunited, but that reconciliation failed, and Burns is now living in a house Stapp bought for her near his own in Orlando. "I think in her heart she would like a man who's home every day," he says. "I'm in a rock band and I'm gone a lot. I'll always love her. She gave me one of the greatest gifts in my life, my son."
Now sharing custody of 2-year old Jagger - "Not named after Mick!" Stapp insists. "His name means 'one who carries a message'"-he prides himself on being a full-service date. "I do everything, from the diapers to the vomit," he says. "I've been peed on, pooped on, the whole nine yards." His mother, for one, marvels. "In a man," says homemaker Lynda Stapp, 51, "it's rare to see such a maternal instinct."
Raised near Orlando with two sisters and two stepsisters as a born-again Christian by Lynda and her second husband, dentist Steven Stapp, 58, Scott was a preschooler when his natural father left home. "I love him," he says of his stepdad, a strict disciplinarian who sometimes, as punishment, made him copy long passages from the Bible by hand. "He's a strong man for coming into a situation where a woman had three kids." As a child, Scott was "very sensitive and intuitive," recalls Lynda. "I never put him down for showing emotion, and I think that fuels his artistry." Not that it helped him with the girls in high school: "I was always the guy the girls called and cried about their boyfriends to." By his freshman year at Tennessee's Lee University, he had grown three inches taller and suddenly "all these girls wanted to go out with me."
Bounced from college for smoking marijuana, Stapp, who rebelled against his strict Christian upbringing and is no longer an active churchgoer, moved to Tallahassee, Fla. (after reading that Jim Morrison once lived there). In 1995 he began setting his poetry to Tremonti's music. Now that his career is at full boil, Stapp devotes some of his downtime to his charity, With Arms Wide Open Foundation, named after Creed's signature hit. (The organization, which he funds with proceeds raised from Creed CD sales and concerts, helps homeless families fund affordable housing, then pays the deposits and two months' rent.) But his most precious moments are reserved for playing music with Jagger, who likes to bang on the baby grand piano, drum set and guitar his father bought for him. "He pretends he's strumming and singing into a microphone," Stapp says proudly. "He says, 'Daddy, let's go upstairs and jam.'"
.Linda Trishitta in Miami